Thanksgiving Weekend in Brief

Cris and I got back from visiting her folks in Missouri this afternoon.  We’ve essentially been away from home for two weeks since we were in the The Netherlands the week before we went to Missouri.  I really enjoyed both trips, but I’m tired and glad to be home.  That being said, I wanted to share a couple of thoughts from the weekend.

One of our goals from going out to MO this trip was to get some planning stuff for the wedding done, and I’m pretty sure we actually accomplished some of that.  We’ve decided on the person that’s going to make our cake and we’re pretty sure we know what we’re going to have her do.  The specifics haven’t been decided on.  We know the cake flavors we’re going to use and general shape, but not specific details.  I’ll let Cris worry about that.  We also got a much better idea on what we’re going to do for flowers.  We couldn’t get a florist locked down b/c many places weren’t taking appointments until after the new year to discuss weddings next year.  We’ll have to get that sorted out at a later time.

I think having two Thanksgiving feasts on two consecutive days is more than I can handle.  I’ve never eaten so much food in a 24 hour period, and I’m not sure that I ever will again.  Full spreads of turkey, mashed and sweet potatos, stuffing, cranberry sauces, green bean casseroles, and whatever else you might want at both meals.  On top of that, there were between 10 and 15 deserts over the two days.  All of it was delicious, but I’m paying the price for discovering that it was all delicious today.

How is it that Cris and I couldn’t get our seat assignments until right before the flight boarded today because it was in an oversold status, but there were opens seats on our plane when we took off?  I’m having a harder and harder time believing airline people these days.

Good news, bad news when we got home.  Got home in time to see the FSU-Florida game.  Florida bludgeoned my ‘Noles mercilessly.  Don’t have to tell you which is the good and which is the bad.

Silver lining of the day is that its Saturday and I have one more day before I have to go back to work.  I hope everyone else had a great weekend with friends and family.

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Man Trampled in Black Friday Shopping Surge

Now I know why there are people around the world that hate Americans; we’re stupid.  I understand that Black Friday is a big day for the retail industry and that its extremely important to our economy, but is it really worth someone dieing to get a good deal on a Blu Ray player?

Its just hard for me to fathom the mentality behind someone willing to push and shove to get to sale items in a store to the point where someone gets trampled in the process.  On top of that, when police and emergency personnel responded to the scene, people were jostling them and making it difficult for them to provide the aid the trampled employee needed.  If I was one of those cops, I think I would have had a hard time not just starting to arrest people.

I don’t even know what else to say.  Stuff like this just really pisses me off.  Its amazing to me how easily people seem to lose perspective on what’s really important in life.

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Yeah, We Got Our Dance On

Cris’ parents have been taking dance lessons for a while now.  I don’t think they set out taking the lessons with any particular goal in mind, I think they just wanted to do it for fun.  Its something that Cris has wanted to do for a long time and after talking with her mom, she decided we were going to take a couple of lessons while we are here in JC.  She “asked” me if I was up for it (i.e. “we’re going to take some dance lessons, I hope you don’t mind.”), and since I’m thinking that it would be kind of cool to do something a little more than the eighth grade hands on the hips, shuffle back and forth for our first dance at our wedding, I’d give it a shot.

We had lesson one of two yesterday, and of course we were awesome.  Actually, I really had no idea how it was going to go.  I went in hoping that I could rely on my natural athleticism, but playing soccer isn’t really the same as dancing so I wasn’t sure how that was going to go.  Cris has had a little dance training in the past through her musical theater, but she always told me that she wasn’t good and her dance instructors always got frustrated with her.  Perhaps they were learning much more complicated dances, but I thought she was awesome.

Our instructor, Ed, was teaching us the foxtrot and he would start showing us the steps using Cris as his partner.  Without any prior teaching in the dance she was able to easily follow along like she had done it hundreds of times.  She rules.

The thing that I like the most about dancing with Cris is that for once in our relationship, there is no question that I’m the boss out there.  I get to tell her what to do and she can’t do anything about it.  Given that we’re going to be dancing on our wedding night, it may be the last time I’m without doubt the boss.

Naw, I don’t give up that easily.  We’ll be arguing over that for years to come.

So we have one more lesson here today.  We’re actually going to do our lesson just before her parents regular class so we’re going to stick around and watch them, which should be fun.  Dancing may be a hobby that Cris and I try to pick up after we leave.  It would be a great way for us to exercise together, which is hard for us to do right now because I prefer to run for exercise and she hates running.  Today the foxtrot, tomorrow the tango.

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College Football Weekend Review

Cris and I were out and about in Missouri doing wedding stuff this Saturday, but I was still able to catch the Florida State game and watch the five minutes of the Texas Tech game that was worth watching.

Couple of thoughts on those games.

Our defense played played really well against Maryland and Everette Brown is a beast.  I would not want to be a quarterback playing against him right now.  He’s now first in the nation in tackles for loss and second for sacks.  Usually, offensive players are considered exciting to watch and get a great deal of attention, but I gotta say that if you’re watching an FSU game, pay attention to Everette Brown when we’re on defense.  Its really something enjoyable to see.

Beyond, Everette Brown, the rest of our defense stepped up and played extremely solidly as well.  Our yardage numbers for our defense weren’t as solid as they have been at times this season, but the huge thing was we forced four turnovers and at least one of those was a fumble returned for a touchdown.

The offense didn’t do anything overwhelming, but played a very solid game and didn’t turn the ball over, which is all you can ask for.  Ponder was extremely efficient in passing and actually carried the load in the running game.  If there is really one thing that I’m not all that happy with is that we seem to be relying on the running game a little too much and Ponder is carrying a little too much of the load for my liking.  We were very successful on the option and they weren’t picking up the QB so he’s supposed to keep it, but I don’t like him getting hit a lot.

Last thing on FSU; huge, massive, monumental congratulations to Myron Rolle, FSU’s strong safety.  Rolle was named a Rhodes scholar on Saturday before he hopped a plane to Maryland to get into the the game just before the end of the first half.  Getting a Rhodes Scholarship is hard enough in and of itself, but doing it while graduating in around two years and being a standout defensive player for a major college football program is simply an incredible accomplishment.  The only downsides to his Rhodes scholarship is that his streak of games started was snapped at 32 and he now has to decide whether he takes the scholarship and goes to study at Oxford for two or three years or he moves on to the NFL, which is a distinct possibility.  No one knows for sure what he’s going to do, but I have a feeling that his desire to be a neurosurgeon is going to take him to Oxford and his football dreams are going to be put on hold or go by the wayside.  Whatever he decides, he’s what a student athlete should strive to be.

About that other game.  What the heck happened with Texas Tech.  To sum things up with three of the top teams in the Big 12, Oklahoma got handled by Texas, Texas got handled by Texas Tech, and now Texas Tech got embarrassed by Oklahoma.  I thought this was going to be a close game because I knew Oklahoma is a good team, but I had no idea that Texas Tech was going to be taken to the woodshed.  The really bad thing for Texas Tech is that they lost late and the other teams lost earlier so they will get in to a worse bowl game than the other two.

Next week is the big rivalry week for both FSU and UGA.  FSU has Florida next weekend and UGA plays Georgia Tech.  Florida is likely to take it to FSU.  We’ve been getting better, but Florida, as much as I hate to say it, is a really good football team and I don’t think we have what it takes to beat them yet.  I’m feeling much better about UGA’s chances, but its definitely not a definite win.  Georgia has a good offense, but their defense hasn’t been as good this year and Georgia Tech’s tiple option offense has given teams fits this year.  I think a lot will be dependant on the health of Georgia Tech’s quarterback, Josh Nesbitt.  His ankle has been giving him trouble and the times that I’ve seen their back up, Jaybo Shaw, run the offense they haven’t been near as effective.

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An Actual Wedding Related Post

One of the reasons I started this blog was to keep family and friends up to speed on what’s going on with our wedding and wedding planning.  Since I’ve yet to actually post something about the wedding, I figure its about time I did, so here it goes.

For those of you who aren’t on my Facebook and haven’t heard already, we finally selected a date.  We’re getting married 18 October 2009 at Les Bourgeois Wineryin Rocheport, MO.  Rocheport is a very small town outside of Columbia, MO which is near where Cris grew up and her parents still live.  We both wanted to have an outdoor wedding and the ceremony space they have overlooking the Missouri River is pretty great.

Coming to that decision was more painful than anyone would think. Much of that was due to the fact that Cris is trying to finish law school and will be taking the Bar soon after graduation and trying to find a time in a place that we liked that had a good ceremony site was simply, well kind of ridiculous.  I should have known better that the good times were only beginning.

So we’re in Missouri visiting Cris’ folks for Thanksgiving and we decided to come out for the whole week so we could try to get some wedding stuff done.  Going to floral shops is awesome.  In case you didn’t catch the sarcasm, let me repeat that going to floral shops is awesome.

Really, its not as painful as say, going to the grocery store, but its not exactly fun.  I think one of the problematic things is that Cris isn’t wanting to accept that I’m not going to have a strong enough opinion on flowers to where I’m willing to get into an argument about them.  I have opinions on pretty much everything that’s going to go into this wedding, but there are only a few things that I’m going to be willing to really dig my heels in and argue with her about and one of the biggest, our photographer, has already been selected.  That being said, I’m still trying to make myself available and give opinions and provide a perspective whenever I’m asked.

Another thing that we’ve been doing a little bit is trying to decide where we’re going to get our cake baked and what we want our cake to look like.  For me the cake was something that was kind of fun to try to decide on for a little bit, and then the interestingness wore off pretty quickly.  There’s only so long that you (read: a guy, excluding male pastry chefs and bakers) can look at super flowery cakes and actually be interested.  This is another one of those things where I’ve voiced my opinion, I’ve told Cris what I like and what I don’t like, and now I’m telling her that she has final say.  I have reserved a veto for anything that I just can’t deal with, but that category isn’t very big.

We’re going to meet with another baker tomorrow and I’m a little more excited about that appointment b/c we’ll actually have samples to taste.  We’ve scratched the surface of a few other things like music and our first dance, but we haven’t gotten in to those as much yet.

I’ll try to do a better job of updating the goings on here, and Cris and I are planning on putting together a separate webpage to communicate all the pertinent information for the wedding when we have a few more of those details.

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Reporting in from Den Haag (sort of)

**So I started this post like three days ago, but I’ve been pretty busy and typing on a Blackberry is kinda slow. Anyway, I’m going to finish it as if I did it all in one sitting. If there are a lot of errors and typos, sorry. If I feels inclined I’ll fix it later.**

I obviously didn’t get a post in last night. Cris and I had an extremely full day and I wasn’t up for it when we got back to the hotel. So here’s a quick rundown of what we packed into our last day in Amsterdam.

We started out at the Rijksmuseum. I’m not sure if a bunch of it was closed or not but the building on the outside is way bigger than the area we were able to walk through on the inside. Inside was a pretty interesting mix of artwork and artifacts from the golden age of Dutch history when the Netherlands was the great economic power in the world.

The next thing was the highlight of the day for me and that was the canal cruise. The weather turned out to be absolutely perfect and the city was really able to show off. We had already walked some of the areas the tour went, but it also took us to some places we hadn’t gone so that was cool.

After our tour we walked to a couple of old houses that they turned into museums. They have some of the old original furnishings and decorations in the houses and you can freely walk through and check them out.

From there we went up to the botanic garden to get a piece of Dutch apple pie in their cafe, which is supposed to be some of the best in the city, and to check out the butterfly house.

Next, we went to a little flea market because Cris likes to do random stuff like that and then to the Rembrandt House. The Rembrandt House was a really well done museum, I thought, but it was the end of our day and we were running low on time again. The saddest thing about Rembrandt is that as great of an artist as he was he was flat broke by the time he died and he was forced to sell off all his possessions.

That was the end of our touring day, but I have to comment on the place we went for dinner. Its called Pasta e Basta and its a musical Italian place. While you eat they have a guy playing the piano and every couple of songs one of the waitresses would sing a song as she walked around the restaurant with a portable microphone. Good food and a very entertaining meal. Definitely a good way to cap off our visit to the city.

Today we left Amsterdam to come down to The Hague, or Den Haag as I like to use the real name since its one of the few things I can actually say in Dutch. The Hague is okay. Perhaps we just didn’t know the right place to go in the limited amount time we had to spend here, but the city wasn’t near as interesting as Amsterdam to me.

Last night (Wednesday) after my mettings ou hosts took us back up to Amsterdam for a night dinner cruise through the canals. If you ever visit and you have the time and money I would definitely recommend doing both cruises. The city is quite beautiful at night and is worth seeing both during the day and at night from the canals.

I’m now on a train from The Hague to the airport in Amsterdam. I’m very tired…and the train is crowded…and I have to sit on a plane for over eight hours. This is going to be a fun day.

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More Close Encounters of the Two Wheeled Kind

Another day walking through the streets of Amsterdam and more near misses with cyclists riding like crazy people through the city.  If you missed it yesterday, I noted that there are cyclists everywhere in this city.  Today I note more accurately that they are everywhere in the city and they don’t feel they are confined to any avenue of transport.  They have their own bike lane but we were almost run over by cyclists, in bike lanes, car lanes, and sidewalks today.

Despite the constant obstacle course, we had an awesome, full day of sightseeing around Amsterdam.  We got the day started a little later than we wanted due to messing up the setting of the alarm and jet lag, but its probably for the better.  Cris and I both felt well rested and eager to hit the ground running when we did get started.

First a couple of observations about Amsterdam in general, now that I was able to look around with a clear head.  The city is absolutely beautiful.  Pretty much everywhere you look you could take a picture and you’d have a postcard worthy photo.  All of the buildings look interesting and its hard to know what exactly to look at because they’re all unique.  Its also an incredibly easy city to walk…well except for the bikes of course

So after grabbing a quick breakfast, we headed up to the Anne Frank House.  The museum has been done very nicely.  They allow you to walk through the spaces that they lived in, giving little bits of description of what the room was used for and who stayed in what space.  Per the request of Mr. Frank there was no furniture placed in the rooms, but they have a few artifacts, mostly books, that the Franks and others had while they were in hiding.  Its shocking to see how little space they actually had to live in, and to think they were there for years is unthinkable.

After the Anne Frank museum, we walked a little until we came across the Tulip Museum.  Very small for how big a deal tulips are here.  Random fact I learned: tulips are native to the Himalayas.  Who would have thunk it?

After the tulip museum, we continued to walk around to various points of interest in the city.  Just to note, this is when we got our first strong smell of marijuana in the city; so weird.  Along our walk we stopped at a theater museum they have for Dutch theater.  They had a bunch of displays about costuming and backstage work that goes into putting on a show.

We also walked through the city center called Dam Square.  On the square is the national monument, the Royal Palace, and the New Church.  All very, very cool architecture, but we weren’t able to tour the palace or the church because they were closed.  Dam Square is also a center of shopping and restaurants so this is where we really came across our first big crowd since we’ve been here.

After grabbing a quick bite we continued on our walk to the Old Church, which is, surprise surprise, one of the oldest churches in the country.  They were getting ready to close as we got there so we only had a few minutes to check it out, but I’m glad we did.  First, the entire floor is made up of tombstones, and there are some 2500 people buried under the floor of the church.  One of most famous people buried there is Rembrandt’s wife.  Totally random thing they had was a “Tombstone of the Month,” where they highlight one of the people that is buried there.  Two other notable things about the church is the huge pipe organ they have and the stained glass windows.  There were doing work on the organ so we couldn’t see all of that, but the stained glass windows were amazing in their detail and color.

From church we went straight to and through one of the most notorious parts of the city; the red light district.  First, I want to note that the Old Church is across a canal from the edge of the red light district so you can see the red lights from the front of the church.  That’s just weird.

The red light district, or at least the part we went through, isn’t necessarily what you would think.  Basically, you have narrow pedestrian alleys off of main streets where the girls are trying to sell their services.  They do this by standing in glass doorways in next to nothing.  Let me just say that its uncomfortable to walk down a street like that, if you’re not interested in buying what they’re offering.  I guess I can at least say that I did it now, for whatever that is worth.  Its a life experience.

After our walk through the red light district we strolled our way back through the old city on the way to our hotel.  Nothing to say about anything in particular on the walk.  Only thing really to note here is that the city is a new kind of beautiful at night with the lights reflecting off the water of the canals.

A quick note on dinner is that we had Indonesian for the first time tonight and it was good, but we don’t know what we had.  We ordered a sort of Indonesian tapas dish that had a bunch of small samplers, but they didn’t tell us exactly what was included.  So I guess I like Indonesian food, but I can’t say that I’m able to really recognize the differences between the different kinds of Asian food.  I guess my palate just isn’t refined enough.

Tomorrow is our last day in Amsterdam before heading down to The Hague and its going to be as filled tomorrow as it was today if not more.

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Greetings from Amsterdam

So this might have been one of the longest days of my life…sort of.  Even though I’ve slept some since I woke up yesterday morning, it hasn’t been a good solid eight hours of sleep and so it feels like I haven’t slept at all.  Between the red-eye flight and the jet lag I’m all screwed up.  That being said, we were able to get a little sight seeing in and I’ve already had some pretty strong impressions of Amsterdam.  Here are my stream of consciousness thoughts cause that’s basically the only way my brain is working at the moment.

When people said everyone spoke English here, they weren’t kidding.  I think the only person who didn’t speak English well that we’ve encountered so far was a busboy where we had dinner, and I think he might have immigrated from somewhere outside of Europe.

The city is short and sort of spread out, but very very cool.  Its grey and rainy but for me that only adds to the charm of the city.  The architecture is very unique and is definitely the flavor.

Despite the grey weather, the people strike me as extremely friendly and very willing to help out any time you have a question about anything.

A possible exception to the friendliness are the cyclist, of which there is an overwhelming abundance.  There are a ton of them, they ride fast, and to someone unfamiliar with the city it only takes one near miss to realize that the smooth part of the sidewalk is actually the bike lane and you shouldn’t walk there.

If you ever come to Amsterdam, I can definitely recommend staying in the Museum Quarter.  Our hotel is just across the street from the Rijkmuseum (one of their biggies) and just a few short blocks from the Van Gogh Museum.  A short walk in the other direction from the Museums is an area full of restaurants where we got lunch and dinner today.

Our hotel is pretty nice, though I’m not sure I’ve ever stayed in a room where the ceilings were as high as the room is wide.  Very, very small compared to a stateside hotel, but its pretty nicely appointed and it’ll definitely do the job for a couple of days while we’re here.

The Van Gogh museum was a pretty good visit and, as I said, easy for us to get to.  I became a real fan of Van Gogh when I saw a good bit of his work at the Musee d’Orsay in Paris.  Wouldn’t you know that when we visit two of his more famous paintings, The Potato Eaters and Starry, Starry Night, are in New York on tour.

I think I had more thoughts than this when I started, but I can’t remember what they are anymore.  We have a few things planned for tomorrow including the Ann Frank House and the Heinekan brewery museum tour.  Hopefully tomorrow will be a little more of a rested day and we’ll get in everything we want.

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Off to the Nether Netherlands

Heeding the advice of my best friend, Steven, Cris and I are heading out to the Netherlands on the lookout for an angry old pirate and a ticking crocodile.

Not sure that it has completely hit me yet that we’re going.  Still too busy trying to get all the last minute details sorted out.  Work was crazy the last couple of days trying to get everything together and hopefully, I did actually get everything sorted out.  I actually got done packing early, but that’s not good because it was too easy for me to not forget something.  I guess I’ll just take the philosophy that what I forget, that’s what credit cards are for.

I hope to be able to check in on the blog while we’re over there, so I’ll drop notes on what we’re up to.  And I’ll definitely be posting some pictures once we get back, though that will probably be after Thanksgiving since we leave for Missourri the day after we get back from the Netherlands.

Someone tell me what I’m forgetting.

Oh well, see you in about a week.

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